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8 LIES MY MOM TOLD ΜΕ

This story began when I was a child. I was born into a poor family that often didn't have enough food to fill our hungry stomachs. During meal times, Mother would give me her portion of rice. As she transferred her rice into my bowl, she would always say, "Eat this rice, son. I'm not hungry."

MARRIAGE Is Like A Shoe

"MARRIAGE is like a shoe. When you wear oversize, be ready to drag it along throughout life, and when you wear under-size be ready to feel the pains throughout life".

One thing about marriage is that you don't drop your shoe or remove it at any point, no matter how painful or stressful. That is why I thought it necessary to write you this letter.

Dear Singles, When you are ready to buy your own shoe please take note of these three things:

Some Social Rules that may help you

1. Don't call someone more than twice continuously. If they don't pick up your call, presume they have something important to attend to.

2. Return money that you have borrowed even before the person who loaned it to you remembers or asks for it. It shows your integrity and character. The same goes for umbrellas, pens, and lunch boxes.

3. Never order the expensive dish on the menu when someone is treating you to lunch or dinner.

Never force a relationship

Sometimes it's better to move on than to hold on to a person who doesn't understand who you truly are. Unfortunately, there will be times when your absence will teach you what your presence cannot. You need to stop breaking your own heart in trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn't meant to work, to begin with. You can't force someone to genuinely care about you. You can't force someone to be faithful to you. You can't force someone to be the person you need them to be. The truth is, sometimes the person you want the most is the same person you would be best without. You have got to understand some things are meant to come into your life, just not meant to stay.

In everything that you do to show love, you have to be careful, not to lose yourself by trying to fix what should never been there in the first place. You can't get the relationship you need from someone who's not ready to reciprocate the love you give to them.

The story of Nala-Damayanti

Nala, the king of Nishadh, had a half-brother named Pushkar, who, despite his royal lineage, played an insignificant role in the kingdom. Pushkar harbored deep resentment towards Nala, fueled by jealousy over the blessings their father had bestowed upon Nala.

A swan, acting as a messenger, brought Nala and Damayanti together at her svayamvara, the ancient ceremony where a princess chose her husband. The swan extolled Nala’s virtues so eloquently that Damayanti gave her heart to him and resolved to choose no other. However, four gods—Indra, Varuna, Agni, and Yama—also desired to win Damayanti’s hand and devised a plan to outwit their rival, Nala.

5 WAYS TO KILL DIFFICULTIES IN YOUR LIFE

1. Accept the situation: Acknowledge the situation you are in and accept it. Denying or ignoring the problem won't make it go away. Acceptance helps you to remain calm and find a solution.

2. Focus on the solution: Instead of focusing on the problem, focus on finding a solution. If one solution doesn't work, try another until you find one that works.

Some Amazing Life Lessons

 How to work with people you don't agree with or like or trust by Adam Kahane:

1. The Psychology of "Enemyfying": Kahane gives us the cognitive processes that lead to the perception of others as enemies. Understanding these mechanisms is crucial for overcoming entrenched divisions.

2. Despite our differences, we all share common human experiences. Recognizing this shared humanity can be a powerful tool for building bridges and fostering empathy.