One major factor why people fall out of love for each other quickly is because THEY DON'T GIVE THEMSELVES SPACE ENOUGH TO MISS THEMSELVES.
Too much of everything is very very bad and unhealthy most especially when dealing with humans.
The moments both parties in a relationship begins to overwhelmed themselves with their overcompensating attentions, care, etc at first it will be good but then someone amongst them will begin to get too familiar with everything and then serious boredom creeps in and there you have what it takes to destroy the relationship.
This is why as a man the space effect is a non negotiable tool for you to apply in your relationship and marriage and its your responsibility to do lead this role effectively.
Learn to create that void because that's the fuel that feeds the emotional connections in the relationship.
You must learn to ration your attention, care and gestures to ensure that you don't over do it.
Learn it, it will help your relationship go a long way.
Sometimes intentionally Create room for your woman to miss you, let her feel your impact, let her know your worth and essence, she loves it that way trust me even though she will be forming as if she doesn't.
Don't be the guy that always want to talk to your woman everyday on phone, do video calls, see her everyday, text her everyday etc.
It's her duty to try to make that work that way but try to control that effect and you don't be the guy that initiate that romantic bullishit.
One thing you must note is that you must not overdo it as it will mean that you have loose interests her.
Balance is key, anyday you eventually meet her, give her all the attention she needs, be there for her, make her laugh, make her feel loved and remind her how much you love her but then also learn to be a mystery man to her for sometimes.
Get busy, have hobbies, let something be taking you away from her occasionally.
If you can apply this psychological effect well on your relationship and marriage you sustain it.
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